The attachment principle

Ever gotten so use to someone more like attached and all of a sudden they throw all that away . Sure anyone would be devastated when this happens even when you desperately want the relationship to work .

Well there's a point in our life's where you realize you really like someone and yet you guyz just keep having issues and breaking up and making up .



 It seems like you really want this person to be part of life and then you realize all the drama is only holding you back from becoming the person you deserve to be .

Guyz think about it, there are certain relationships where you keep having issues and yet there's this hope within you believing things will fall into place the way they used to be .

(See! wake up its only holding you back )

You need to learn to move on and let go sometimes. Its like riding on an emotional roller coaster.

Sometimes its not just about your partner but its about you, even if a part of you feels like you need them in order to be happy . You sometimes attach a part of yourself to them that every time they leave it feels like  your faced with an empty void.

Never depend on other people to make you happy . Of course they can add to your happiness but never let them define it .

You just need to decide when its that time to move on with your life and rebuild yourself so you'll never feel weak and desperate ever again . When its time to do what you have to do . My dear its time mehn no two ways about it .

Its surprising but in every relationship the person who cares least always has the power .... Its really sad but true . The person who's willing to walk away always has the upper hand ....