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Ever wondered when people say
"they have not met the right one" ?
Well sometimes I wonder if there truly is someone like the right one or do you just bend to certain things, and that's what makes them the right one ??
Had a convo recently with some colleagues about marriage and what marriage is . Now again can anyone really give a proper definition to marriage ?
To me, marriage is an unending institution and funny thing its the only institution that gives you your certificate even before you get to have a taste of it. lool (kinda scary sha )
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Who is that right partner?
Can anyone ever be the right one ?
Whats the difference between Mr Right and Mr Perfect ?
We all have flaws. Coping with another person's flaws and seeing everything good about the person is what makes that person the Right one/ your Mr Perfect . No doubt Love is real and you begin to love their perfect imperfections. (loool ... john legend oo)
What can one really look out for ?
1. Companionship
2. Compatibility
Even these two things are inter-related and once we can find these we begin to search further to know:
Does he have prospect? Can he take care of you and make you a better person? religion? blah blah blah .......
and obviously financial strength .
and obviously financial strength .
You'll agree with me true love goes beyond looks and sex.We spend our entire lives creating the Mr Perfect/Mr Right in our heads, but
sometimes when he’s right in front of us, we don’t even notice because your busy searching deep for things that would fall in place in due time and which can only happen with PRAYERS! and if you're ready to take that decision .
marriage is a process when a man and a woman are spiritually and mentally together forever and nothing can ever break them up
ReplyDeletei agree true love goes far beyond the facial looks
ReplyDeleteI also agree that we look to deep for what is directly in front of us but we can only see the right person when we prey about it.that was very nice
ReplyDeletewell. i have been in marriage counseling for over a decade,, i will not mind to share my views on this page as regularly as i can, my contribution to this is very precise, compatibility can never be compromised, i mean, spiritual , social, intellectual,compatibility is key. what do you think?
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