"Committing" means "growing up" to some guys and a lot of guys
don't want to grow up, or maybe they just
want to delay the process of growing up for as
long as possible. Commitment is a sign of maturity and some guys are simply too immature to commit.*smh* .Many guys are afraid of commitment.There are a lot of reasons why he’s scared of commitment. Once a guy commits, he will lose the right to date other women and they don't
want this especially when they really don't know what they are looking for .
want this especially when they really don't know what they are looking for .
I decided to share some reasons i feel why guys are scared to commit:
All His Friends Are Single--- This might seem lame for a reason why he’s scared of commitment, but it’s true. Guys are less likely to dive into a serious relationship if his core group of friends are all single. There are chances that your crush could feel left out of those guys' nights out, and feel like his friends will pull away.
All His Friends Are Single--- This might seem lame for a reason why he’s scared of commitment, but it’s true. Guys are less likely to dive into a serious relationship if his core group of friends are all single. There are chances that your crush could feel left out of those guys' nights out, and feel like his friends will pull away.
He Still Thinks He's Too Young for a Serious Relationship--- A lot of guys think that they need to live out their young lives
before they get a girlfriend because for some reason they think they are
missing out if they aren’t ‘meeting’ other girls. This is something
that a lot of guys go through, and surprisingly some never grow out of.
There’s Someone Else--- If he just broke up with his ex, or he has a huge crush on another girl, he wont be ready to commit to one person.Its a tough pill to swallow, but necessary to come to terms with it. The someone else could also be a best friend that doesn’t want him to commit, or maybe his sister that is overly protective.
He's Got Other Priorities--- If a guy isn’t going to commit, there’s always a reason, and 99% of the time it has to do with something else going on in his life. For guys and girls, it can be tough to balance life such as love, family and work. If there are things in this guy’s life that demand more attention than his love life (a.k.a you) he'll commit to the other stuff and deal with love when he can.
He's Only in It for the Sex--- Oh yes this could be very true. Sadly, a lot of guys out there are just interested in sex and think that being intimate with just one person for a length of time just wont cut it.But he may see you as a fun person to date, but never thought of you as someone he'd commit to in the end. It's tough to swallow when this is the situation, but it's better to resolve it in your mind and move on. Its just unfortunate some guys are just out to conquest women.Keep a close eye on things so you're not a victim of conquesting. Usually, if you have a gut feeling that this is the case, you are right.
He’s Afraid to Take Himself off The Market--- There could be the reason that maybe he’s just not ready, and this is OK. Don’t push him if he’s genuinely just not ready to settle down. If he’s afraid to completely take himself off the market, chances are it wont last anyway if he’s not in it 100%. If he's going to commit, let him come to that moment on his own. It better he commits naturally on his own, and not because he was pressured to do so anyway. If you feel you have enough time to waste for him to decide good for you if not my dear #ontothenext.
What reasons have you seen in your experience for guys not committing ? Share the reasons with us and do you agree with my reasons?
There’s Someone Else--- If he just broke up with his ex, or he has a huge crush on another girl, he wont be ready to commit to one person.Its a tough pill to swallow, but necessary to come to terms with it. The someone else could also be a best friend that doesn’t want him to commit, or maybe his sister that is overly protective.
He's Got Other Priorities--- If a guy isn’t going to commit, there’s always a reason, and 99% of the time it has to do with something else going on in his life. For guys and girls, it can be tough to balance life such as love, family and work. If there are things in this guy’s life that demand more attention than his love life (a.k.a you) he'll commit to the other stuff and deal with love when he can.
He's Only in It for the Sex--- Oh yes this could be very true. Sadly, a lot of guys out there are just interested in sex and think that being intimate with just one person for a length of time just wont cut it.But he may see you as a fun person to date, but never thought of you as someone he'd commit to in the end. It's tough to swallow when this is the situation, but it's better to resolve it in your mind and move on. Its just unfortunate some guys are just out to conquest women.Keep a close eye on things so you're not a victim of conquesting. Usually, if you have a gut feeling that this is the case, you are right.
He’s Afraid to Take Himself off The Market--- There could be the reason that maybe he’s just not ready, and this is OK. Don’t push him if he’s genuinely just not ready to settle down. If he’s afraid to completely take himself off the market, chances are it wont last anyway if he’s not in it 100%. If he's going to commit, let him come to that moment on his own. It better he commits naturally on his own, and not because he was pressured to do so anyway. If you feel you have enough time to waste for him to decide good for you if not my dear #ontothenext.
What reasons have you seen in your experience for guys not committing ? Share the reasons with us and do you agree with my reasons?
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