Wednesday, 16 April 2014

Attitude is Everything



Negative attitude will give a Negative life.
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Life needs positive attitudes.Life feeds on them not because they make you happy but because they are also creative.
There once lived an old woman, but the older she
got, the younger she felt because youthfulness has nothing to do with age.It is an attitude.And with age and its richness one can really be younger than the
young.
The old woman was so cheerful and creative that everyone wondered at her.''But you must have some clouds in your life'' someone asked Clouds? She replied, ''why of course; if there were no clouds where would the blessed showers come from?''
Attitude is indeed everything and that's a fact.  It is both the art and the science of being a human being.  Look at any situation in your life, past or present.  Every single thing that has ever happened to you has been 100% dependent upon your perception of it.  And how you perceive something forms your attitude towards it. 
 That doesn't mean that things don't get created by some circumstances that affect you but the moment something happens to you it's the same moment that you begin shaping your attitude towards it. Does that mean we should automatically adopt positive attitudes around challenging situations?  Absolutely not.  That is the essence of denial.  We owe it to ourselves to experience the full range of feelings that accompany any challenge.  Otherwise, we don't actually grow.  We never become bigger than the challenge that way.  You can't have a genuinely positive attitude about something when you are in fact, just covering up your feelings.

Moreover, an attitude of gratitude brings opportunities but an attitude of gratitude is easier said than done for most of us.  Having a good attitude about the parts of one's life that are not challenging is pretty easy.  But having a good attitude when we are struggling to deal with life's challenges is a whole other thing. 

In the presence of trouble, and there are troubles in life, the positive mind grows wings, but others buy cruthes.

GROW WINGS AND DON'T BUY CRUTCHES !

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