True Friends - Fake Friends

What most people need to learn in life is how to love people and use things instead of using people and loving things.

I hate people who only call you when they want something or just feel you're doing great and want to famz, these ones actually don't even wish you well. (Lets leave that for the next post All them Bad Belle FRiends).

Friendship is always a sweet responsibility ,never an opportunity.

The phone rings....you see who is calling......U think to yourself 'surely not THIS time'....you answer the phone......Its usually few seconds of small talk.....then once there's a chance to change the conversation, then all of a sudden its "oh yeah,can i ask a favor. . . . . " !!!!!!!

 You know these type of people....You don't hear from them for days,weeks or sometimes even months.You eventually get a call out of the blues ....NOT to find out how things are...but ONLY to ask for a favor!!. No-one is saying friends shouldn't ask for favors but ABEG you don't call only when you need something.

These set of people constantly phone you when they want something or need something done.....if there's ever a RARE occasion when u may have to ask them for something.....all you get are excuses or they *mysteriously disappear*.........UNTIL THEY NEED SOMETHING AGAIN!!

 It's great to help a friend out, but if that's the only reason your friend ever contacts you, it is obvious they are just using you and don't really care about your friendship. Signs that your friend is using you for favors :

• Never there for you during the important times .
• Only contacting you when they want something from you.
• Fail to return your calls, pings or even text messages.

If your friend can't connect with you except during the times when they need a favor, it's time to cut communication altogether.

There's a point in life when you get tired of chasing friends and trying to fix everything, but its not giving up, its realizing that you don''t need certain people and their crap. Sometimes you have to distance yourself from people that only call when they need something.Fair weather friends only want to come around when they need your sun to shine on their dark and gloomy days. In the end , you'll realize you only have few true friends but that's better than having many fake ones.